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Men Having Babies’ Membership Benefits Program (MBP)

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MHB future and current parents can now become formal members of the organization by making a qualifying annual donation, and in turn benefit from significant discounts from a growing list of surrogacy providers and a wide range of exclusive peer guidance resources and offerings - including our unique Peer Advice Parent Network!

NOTE: As of July 1st, 2020, being a Supporting Member of MHB in good standing allows you to apply to our Gay Parenting Assistance Program (GPAP) with no additional fees. Even if you do not qualify for financial assistance, the MBP promotional offers will still make your parenting journey more affordable and informative.

Here is a summary of how the MBP works:


  • Future and current parents that support MHB with an annual donation of at least $150 per couple / single will be considered members in good standing - but of course you're encouraged to make a higher donation if you can afford it!
  • While this is a bit similar to our GPAP Stage I program, the benefits are typically lower and no financial qualification or background check are involved.

Promotional offers:

    Dozens of surrogacy agencies, IVF clinics, law firms and complementary service providers have already pledged discounts that typically range $500 - $1500 each!
  • The promotional offers are detailed in new enhanced provider profiles we created (we are adding new ones every day - look for a checkmark in the MBP column!) You can also link directly to the offers from the MBP column at the rating & reviews tables, and the general provider directory.
  • Many of the promotions are for prospective parents, and some are also for parents (for instance a discount off embryo storage).
Recently joined MBP providers

Exclusive guidance resources and offerings:

  • A library of guidance videos on becoming gay parents through surrogacy, featuring our staff and expert speakers at past virtual and in-person seminars.
  • Discounted registration fees for all MHB conferences and seminars.
  • Peer Advice Network: connect with MHB families for advice, support and community building based on type of family building experience, location, language, etc.
  • Members-only events:
    • Members orientation: how to maximize the value of your membership and make the best use of the resources MHB has to offer.
    • Budgeting workshops: small classes led by MHB experts, taking you step by step through budget planning.
    • Professionally moderated support groups for in-process IPs: preparing for birth, healthy relationship with your surrogate, dealing with journey setbacks
    • Community events: while most of our webinars are free to all, we also offer special events such as our Pride GPAP Celebration, personal stories panels, etc.
  • Priority email response from MHB staff via
And of course: the best benefit of joining as a supporting member is to help MHB to make gay parenthood a wider reality!

Registration form

Become a Supporting Member of MHB!
You can become a Member by making an annual donation of one of the following support levels:
  1. Supporter - $150
  2. Community Supporter - $175
  3. Committed Supporter - $200
  4. Contributing Supporter - $250
  5. Sustaining Supporter - $500
  6. Rainbow Supporter! $1000
Membership is per family unit / parenting journey, either a couple or single.
Benefits do not vary based on support level.

Members must be over 18 years of age. All membership donations are non-refundable but members can unsubscribe to member communications at anytime. Memberships are good for one year from the date of donation. Benefits from contributing sponsors, informational webinars, and other membership benefits are subject to change throughout the membership period. Men Having Babies makes no guarantees or warrantees on any of the services or products provided by outside companies. Membership is solely for the parties listed on the membership form and benefits, discounts, and other member only access information may not be shared with a third party. All benefits are accessed directly by the member. Member information will not be shared with any third party company. Men Having Babies reserves the right to remove any member from the program for any reason Men Having Babies deems necessary. Submission of this form constitutes acceptance of these terms and conditions. Note, membership discounts with providers cannot be combined with any other offers unless explicitly permitted by the provider and cannot be used retroactively.



If you would like to manage your NeonCRM account (i.e., view donation history, renew membership, etc.), please create a login name and password below. Your password must be at least eight characters long, and contain at least one number.